Remember silence?
Published on June 3, 2004 By InfoGeek In Home & Family
Before I start my musings, let me tell you that yes, todays society has many great technological advances over the past and this has made life better. But I think along the way we lost something.

For those over 18:

Today’s culture is too immediate.
Remember box tops? You would spend a month or two eating cereal, scraping together enough money and sent them in the mail and waiting for the toy to come? That sense of anticipation?

Or, the family coming home early and sitting together in front of the TV because the program was not going to be repeated and could not be seen again? Making deals with your parents to stay up to watch something special?

LPs? Remember how careful you treated them? Dust covers, wiping them down, making sure they did not get too hot?

Now there is overnight shipping, music downloads, Tivo. Immediate, Act NOW!!!

Remember the “do-over”? Something happened when you were playing and either the rules did not cover the event or no one saw exactly what happened? You called the “do-over” and everyone went back to where they were and restarted the game. Could you imagine that today:

Referee steps into camera view and turns on mike.:

“Upon review of the play, it cannot be determined whether “Skinny” Mulligan was in bounds at the catch. A “do-over” has been called”


Remember silence? Just sitting and not hearing anything? Quiet, peaceful, contemplative. Try that today. Go home and see how many things you have to turn off to get it silent.

Just some thoughts.

IG


Comments
on Jun 03, 2004
Thank you!!!
I miss silence. And mail. Snail mail. Remember how excited you got when you received a letter from a relative or (what's this?) a pen pal? Do you remember riding a bicycle before Walkman's came out?
on Jun 03, 2004
Handlebars 1 1/2 feet apart? One speed bikes? No need for bike paths. Everywhere you could pedal was a bike path.

Baseball caps that were worn the correct way?

Baseball games broadcast during the day, on a weekday?

IG
on Jun 03, 2004
Banana seats, penny/nickel candy. Baseball cards without holograms. Skinny nylon skateboards. Neighborhood barbecues. Two kids and their fishing poles on a Saturday morning. The '86 Mets.
on Jun 03, 2004
The "Do over"!!! Oh my god. Sadly, I remember life before cable television. I remember the first cable TV box we had. It had a dial and channels 1-13 and A-T. Those were the days.

Remember riding in the back of a truck?

Riding a bike without a helmet?

Saturday morning cartoons that DIDN'T SUCK?

-- B
on Jun 03, 2004
Drive in movies that mostly showed porn.
on Jun 03, 2004
Candyland? Chutes and Ladders? Lemonade stands? Family vacations that didn't involve cell phones? 29 cent tacos at Taco Bell. School field trips that involved a zoo or a pumpkin patch? The Fonz? Playgrounds that looked like playgrounds.
on Jun 03, 2004
Sadly, I remember life before cable television.


Extra sadly I remember life before colour television.....but then Australia always has been a few decades behind the US in technology.
on Jun 03, 2004


Extra sadly I remember life before colour television.....but then Australia always has been a few decades behind the US in technology


So has the UK, because I can recall my family getting our first color telly.  I can also recall being given 10p on a Saurday morning (about the equivalent of a quarter, I guess) and going off to the shop down the road (alone; we weren't afraid to walk anywhere by ourselves back than) to buy candy.  Stuff that was two-for-a-penny, bubble gum and sherberts and such. 


I totally agree about Saturday morning cartoons that didn't suck.


 

on Jun 04, 2004

Growing up before satellite TV, we lived in the country and got about 3 or 4 fuzzy stations.  However, I remember getting up early on Saturdays to watch cartoons because they were *only* playing on Saturday mornings.  My mom had one of those kid sized folding tables that we sat at eating our oatmeal or pancakes while watching cartoons.  Now, Saturdays are no different than any other day since every day has cartoons on TV.

I think that one of the reasons that we are seeing more and more overweight kids is because they don't have to amuse themselves.  They can just plunk down in front of the TV/video game/computer and be entertained.  We used to walk miles to a friends house to chat with them because Mom was on the phone.  Now you just you AIM or your cell phone.

Heck, do kids even ride bicycles anywhere anymore?

Of course, I also remember when girls dressed like girls

on Jun 04, 2004
Does anyone remember actually going outside and playing. Not computer games or anything but actually playing where you had to *shudder* actually MOVE around and (perish the thought) use your imagination?
on Jun 04, 2004

Does anyone remember actually going outside and playing


Yes, I do.  We used to ride our bikes everywhere, and would think nothing of riding 2 miles (one way) down to the next village to see our friends.  Of course, it was safe to do that without fear of abduction then.  My mum would kick us out of the house and make us play outside...or at least be outside.  We'd go to the play ground, or like Karma says, walk over to someone elses house instead of IM or call them.  I make my kids go outside every afternoon.  If the weather's bad then the TV gets turned off and they have to go find something else to do.

on Jun 04, 2004
Does anyone remember actually going outside and playing


Me too, we lived near the bush....and we used to have great adventures there